They say that marriage is bliss—for the first year or so. After that, the boiling passion of most newlyweds cools down into a simmer. This is not to say that the couple is too used to each other, or is losing interest. It is simply the result of life taking over, schedules being set and met, and routines falling into place. While some couples are happy with their lives during this time, others feel that the newlywed phase ended too soon.
One part of this slowing down for newlyweds and couples is that busy schedules do not allow for the blissful times of the honeymoon days. Making time for intimacy can be difficult, even in the best of situations. Sometimes, a little bit of extra sex is all you need to feel like that newlywed couple once more. For those couples that want to feel like newlyweds again, young and old, here are some sex tips to spice up your marriage.
1. Go buy a sex tips book. This may seem like an odd tip for this piece, but it is the best advice to give. Sex tips books are very explicit and will give you and your spouse a chance to explore what you both like in (or out) of the bedroom.
2. Rent or buy some soft pornography. Sex tips books are great, but sometimes you learn better from seeing than reading. When you and your spouse watch the movies, look at the positions and make sure that you mention any that you might like to try.
3. Take time for each other whenever possible. Get the idea out of your head that sex must happen at night in the bedroom. The best sex tip you will ever get is this—if you get the opportunity to be intimate with your partner, take it!
4. Make a date. Who says you can’t date after marriage? If you feel like your marriage is getting horribly dull, make a date with your spouse. Go out to dinner and a movie, hit the club, or go bowling. By the time you get home, you will feel like you did when you first got married. Since you are both going to be relaxed and in the mood for some fun, use this time to try out some sex tips out of that book mentioned earlier, or pop in a movie.
5. One of the best sex tips for lonely housewives of overworked husbands is to do something unexpected to gain their attention. Sometimes working hard gets in the way, and we don’t see that we are leaving our spouse out of our lives. Put a risqué picture or sexy note in his briefcase or wallet. You will be sure to gain his attention and affections by the time he comes home to a nice candle light dinner for two.
Mario Churchill
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